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Kurt & Cecile

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August 2nd 2025

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Our Story

Kurt and Cecile met through Cecile’s brother Frans while growing up in Red Deer. They dated in High school before going their separate ways. Cecile went off to University and Kurt pursued his career in Paramedicine. But in the summer of 2017, they rekindled they’re romance and made it last. They both share a house in Calgary and are the proud servants of two furry overlords.

Cecile Badenhorst

Born in the wilds of South Africa, Cecile was whisked away to the frozen tundra of Canada at the tender age of seven. Armed with a bilingual tongue, effortlessly switching between Afrikaans and English, she has mastered the art of discreetly swearing at people with a smile. A self-described nerd, Cecile finds fascination in the most unusual things. As a researcher stationed at the University of Calgary, she has boldly declared war on Parkinson’s disease, aided by a crippling caffeine addiction. Despite her busy schedule, Cecile finds solace in gardening, particularly aquaponics experiments. Her guilty pleasures include dramatic reality shows—like the lives of rich housewives—and true crime. As sweet as she may seem, she has a dark sense of humor that often raises eyebrows and elicits nervous laughter. Cecile’s most important and cherished role is that of a crazy cat lady. One of her notable ambitions is to amass a feline army that would make even the ancient Egyptians jealous. Kurt, however, is less enthusiastic about the idea of living in a house overrun by whiskered dictators.

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Kurt Ruether

Kurt's upbringing unfolded in the quieter landscape of Red Deer, Alberta, a place where he roamed outdoors, honing skills in needle safety pickups as this would transition into part of his career as a Firemedic. As he matured, Kurt's love for nature blossomed, often bonding with his brother Dean over therapeutic camping trips in the mountains—a pursuit not entirely aligned with his parents' preferences, but to each their own. During his leisure time, Kurt enjoys indulging in Cecile's fascination with murder documentaries, hitting the golf course (in classic cat dad style), spinning records, and delving into the intricacies of crafting the perfect hi-fi audio setup for his family's enjoyment.

Kurt initially encountered Cecilia through her brother Frans, who has been one of Kurt's closest companions since Grade 8. It soon became evident that Kurt was leveraging his friendship with Frans to learn more about Cecilia. And now, two decades on, here we are.

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I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.

- J.R.R. Tolkien

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We Can't Wait

Wedding Day
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3:30 pm

Guests Gather and Find Their Seats

Please arrive by this time to find your seats and get comfortable. Take a moment to relax and enjoy the beautiful surroundings as we prepare to celebrate this special day.

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4:00 pm

Wedding Ceremony

The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00 PM. Join us as we witness the exchange of vows and celebrate the union of the happy couple. Please be sure to turn off or silence your phones during the ceremony.

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4:30 pm

Cocktails

Following the ceremony, enjoy a selection of cocktails. This is a great opportunity to mingle with other guests, congratulate the newlyweds, and pose for some pictures.

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5:30 pm

Dinner and Reception

The dinner and reception will start at 5:30 PM. Join us in celebrating with a delicious meal, heartfelt toasts, and dancing. The evening will be filled with joy, laughter, and plenty of fun on the dance floor!

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Thank You

The most important thing to us is that you're able to come and celebrate our wedding. We are incredibly grateful for your love and support as we begin this new chapter of our lives together. If you would like to honor us with a gift, we kindly request cash or an e-transfer, as it will help us start our journey in the most meaningful way. This flexibility will allow us to put your generous contribution towards our future adventures and experiences. Please message either Kurt or Cecile for e-transfer information.

Thank you for making our day even more special!

Love Kurt and Cecile